Want to know how to turn a guy on? What REALLY gets a man going? Is it just looks, or is it something else? Here's a clue -- it's not just the halter-tops and the skinny jeans! Here are 2 wonderfully effective ways to make a man -- ANY MAN -- feel madly attracted to you.
I accidentally discovered the first secret years ago, when I was dating this cute guy. I was really reluctant to give him too much information about myself. Truth be told, I met him on a dating website and I was extremely cautious. So when he started asking where I worked and where I lived, I didn't really want to tell him.
I wasn't playing a game. I just didn't want to tell him too much about me. After all, I didn't really know him well at that point and I saw no need for him to know certain things about me. I didn't want him to unexpectedly show up where I worked. And I certainly didn't want him knocking at my door at home!
Unwittingly, I had created an enormous sense of intrigue and mystery. The less I wanted to answer his questions, the more it drove him nuts. (In a good way. If a guy is truly becoming angry and frustrated by your lack of answers, he will normally leave.)
So let him know you little by little. Sometimes, either due to nerves, habit or just a desire to open up, we can reveal way too much -- and that kills the excitement for him.
The Second Way: Remain Somewhat Inaccessible
Admit it. When we meet a great guy, it's hard to resist spending every free moment we have with him. We just can't wait to see him again and we just hate when an evening comes to an end and we have to go home, alone.
Sometimes we even take this a step further; if he doesn't call to see if we're free, we call him to tell him we're free.
That's a huge no-no.
Not only is it not wise to call a guy and request a date, but being constantly ready to be with him can have huge drawbacks. To a certain degree you may be satisfied because you're getting your immediate fix; you get to see him. But in the long run, you may be sending him a message that is not all that good.
You might lead him to think that you're a bit desperate; that you want him too much. A guy will get excited and be flattered knowing a woman wants him, but when that want is too strong and too intense, it can be a real turn off!
Take a step back and let him miss you a bit. During your brief absence, his desire will grow and intensify.
Are there other ways to make men feel attracted to you? You bet. But first, let me introduce myself...
My name is Samantha S. James, and I'm a dating-and-relationships coach. Feel free to join my community of strong, attractive, intelligent women. Learn with us how to become so wonderfully attractive that you won't have to chase men -- the men will do it for you!
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